As I waited for my appointment at the Genius bar at the Apple store in Ft. Lauderdale a while back, I mused about this young dad and his little son Tyler for a while.
The New York Times reported that we would spend 9.6 billion dollars that year on Father’s Day gifts.
But what I saw in this encounter between father and son is priceless — an exchange of loving touch, an intimacy, a comfortability that many of us never received or feel that we know how to give.
If you did have that kind of closeness to your own father, rejoice and give thanks for it is quite rare; determine to give it to your children.
It’s a simple gift, after all, the gift of loving touch, attention and loving presence. Little else is necessary.
And so, here’s to all the fathers I know!
And those I don’t.
To grandfathers, great grandfathers
Rejoice. dear fathers, in your daughters and sons!
Give thanks today for what you have wrought,
not only from your loins
but of your spirit.
Perhaps you have been a great father,
Just be as good a father as you can be.
That’s all your children want.
The most important part of being a father,
is not what your provide for your family ~
a nice home, good food,
health care, education, lots of cool stuff, all that.
The most important part of being a father
is the time you spend getting to know each one as a unique individual
and to call forth their gifts –
to encourage them to be who they are,
to find their own identity,
– not what you want them to be,
but to find their own place in the sun, the Son.
If life circumstances have caused you
not be the greatest of fathers,
it’s not too late.
Just be the best father you can.
Guess who’s the father
Focus on your kids first.
Some fathers who have lost their jobs are discovering their children for the first time.
The most important thing is to be real.
To be honest, a man of integrity. To love.
You are also somebody’s son.
Maybe you have had a great relationship with your own father. Maybe not.
Whether living or dead, honor them today as well.
Just keep trying. Rejoice in your kids.
They are the greatest gift you have in life.
Be proud of them and they will be proud of you.
And so may we pray:
Our Father who art in heaven,
we give you thanks for the life and love you share with us,
Help us as fathers to be there for our kids,
And if we haven’t,
May we do so from this day forward.We are all Your children, Heavenly Father.
We give thanks for those who have fathered us,
even though they may not have given us our DNA
– uncles, teachers, friends, older brothers
And I, too, Father Bob, give thanks to the men who have initiated me into manhood and the ways of the Spirit, such as Cistercian Father Edward McCorkell,o.c.s.o. and Father Eugene Walsh P.S.S.
I also rejoice and give thanks for all those for whom I have been a spiritual father during the forty-seven years of my priesthood by helping them to realize that it is You, heavenly Father, who give life and love to us all. To You be all honor and glory and praise! Amen!
Now, before you go, here’s Mike and the Mechanics singing The Living Years. Click Here. Grab a tissue, turn up your speakers and enter full screen!
And here are the Mass reading’s for this Sunday: Click here.