Love is kind

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Dear Friends and Lovers everywhere,

“Love is patient,

love is kind.”

We’re in a series of reflections based on St. Paul’s Ode to Love (I Cor. 13)

You’ve seen the bumper sticker that says, “Practice random acts of kindness and senseless acts of beauty.”

We would transform America inside out if we just were a little kinder to the people we meet each day.

A smile to the store clerk instead of a scowl.

A wave to our neighbor across the street.

A quick phone call or email  to just say to a friend, “You’re thought of, loved and prayed for.”

A thumbs up sign to the homeless man on the street corner.

My mother was very harsh with me when I was a kid.  There was a lot of yelling in my boyhood home.

So parents and brothers and sisters can think about the kindness issue as well.

I have had my own inner work to  root out that kind of unkindness, even rudeness, from my own behavior.

 I get upset when someone answers a phone call of mine with a curt email because they don’t want to talk to me.

There have been times that I was so angry with company greed that I had the store clerk in tears when i yelled at her.  It helped me realize I had a lot of improvement to do in this area.

With God’s grace I seldom do that anymore.  I’ve made it a point to transform myself more and more to be kind to everyone even and especially those who are not kind to me. And I examine myself on this at day’s end, especially with telemarketers.

And what about texting?  How much rudeness and downright hurt and heartache happens in an instant without a thought of what the  long term damage two thumbs can do! 

The more technology we have to communicate with, it seems the less we communicate.

That’s what Paul is getting at:

Let’s just be kind to one another.

It will transform America.

Before you go, and especially if you haven’t quite woken up this mornin’ here’s a rousing gospel melody for ya: “Put a little Love in your heart!” Click here. Turn up your speakers and be sure to enter full screen and have a great day, whether you like it or not!

With love,

Bob Traupman

contemplative writer

Advent Day 2 — Swords to plowshares / guns to roses

The price of peace paid by the Prince of Peace

Monday of the First Week of Advent

Dear Friends,

If you’re new to this Advent blog,  I recommend reading “Welcome to Advent” Click here. to get a sense of why we want to spend four weeks preparing for our Christmas celebration and how it can help you deepen your (our) spirituality whether you are a Catholic or even a Christian. (If you’re not tech savvy, click on the little arrow on the top left of your browser above the word “Back” and it’ll bring you right back to this page.)

Today, I’m referring to yesterday’s first reading from Isaiah 2:1-5 that you’ll probably recognize:

They shall beat their swords into plowshares

and their spears into pruning hooks.

Nation will not take up sword against nation,

nor will they train for war anymore. (Isaiah 2:4)

All of my adult life my writing and my prayer has been against war —

Viet Nam / the Balkans / the Gulf  War / Iraq / and recently, Afghanistan.

Pope Paul VI, speaking before the United Nations General Assembly made an impassioned plea:

“No more war! Never again war!

And Pope John Paul II said the Iraq war was “a defeat for humanity.”

Dwight David Eisenhower, the great general of Word War II and President of the U.S. said: “When people speak to you about a preventive war, you tell them to go and fight it. After my experience, I have come to hate war. War settles nothing.”

Advent is a time to wish for peace / pray for peace / work for peace.

The Christmas story is about peace.  One of the titles of Jesus is “Prince of Peace.”

But we become cynical about peace.

Many of us have our private little wars that we engage in every day with a sibling or a friend or co-worker.

Let us “Practice peacefulness,” as a friend put it to me once.  Let’s stop the gossiping.  Give people a chance.  Be kind.

The legend of St. Christopher carrying a child across a stream on a stormy night invites us to greet every human being as if they were Christ himself.

Think thoughts of peace.  Be peace.  At least try it today, the second day of Advent.

The image below is a photo of the last page of the men’s magazine Details.   This image is actually a GAP commercial selling plaid shirts;  those are young women and men making up the peace sign.) Would that they (we) would put their (our)  bodies, minds and spirits to the task of creating peace in our world!



I will hear what the Lord God has to say,

a voice that speaks of peace,

peace for his people and his friends.

and those who turn to him in their hearts.

Mercy and faithfulness have met;

Justice and peace have embraced.

Faithfulness shall spring from the earth

and justice look down from heaven.

The Lord will make us prosper

and the earth shall yield its fruit.

Justice shall march before him

and peace shall follow his steps.

Psalm 85

Dear Friends,

Be sure to follow our Advent Blog as we go along. I will publish most days until Christmas.  You can make yourself a five-minute-a-day mini-retreat and have the best and most meaningful Christmas ever!

It’ll relieve your stress.  Calm your nerves.  Put a bounce in your step and a smile on your face.  And it’s free!

And I always spend a lotta time selecting the right photo.  And I search the web for the perfect music video to accompany the theme.

Before you go here’s a real treat for you: Angelina singing St. Francis’ “Make Me a Channel of your Peace,”  filmed right in Assisi.  Click here, Be sure to turn up enter full  screen and turn up your speakers.

With love,

Bob Traupman

contemplative writer

Love is kind

143_143

Dear Friends and Lovers everywhere,

“Love is patient,

love is kind.”

We’re in a series of reflections based on St. Paul’s Ode to Love (I Cor. 13)

This is also about transforming America.

You’ve seen the bumper sticker that says, “Practice random acts of kindness and senseless acts of beauty.”

We would transform America inside out if we just were a little kinder to the people we meet each day.

A smile to the store clerk instead of a scowl.

A wave to our neighbor across the street.

A quick phone call or email  to just say to a friend, “You’re thought of, loved and prayed for.”

A thumbs up sign to the homeless man on the street corner.

 

My mother was very harsh with me when I was a kid.  There was a lot of yelling in my boyhood home.

So parents and brothers and sisters can think about the kindness issue as well.

I have had my own inner work to  root out that kind of unkindness, even rudeness, from my own behavior.

 I get upset when someone answers a phone call of mine with a curt email because they don’t want to talk to me.

There have been times that I was so angry with company greed that I had the store clerk in tears when i yelled at her.  It helped me realize I had a lot of improvement to do in this area.

With God’s grace that’s happening.  I’ve made it a point to transform myself more and more to be kind to everyone even and especially those who are not kind to me. And I examine myself on this at day’s end, especially with telemarketers.

 

And what about texting?  How much rudeness and downright hurt and heartache happens in an instant without a thought of what the  long term damage two thumbs can do! 

The more technology we have to communicate with, it seems the less we communicate.

That’s what Paul is getting at:

Let’s just be kind to one another.

It will transform America.

Before you go, and especially if you haven’t quite woken up this mornin’ here’s a rousing gospel melody for ya: “Put a little Love in your heart!” Click here. Turn up your speakers and be sure to enter full screen and have a great day, whether you like it or not!

With love,

Bob Traupman

contemplative writer

Advent Day 2 — Swords to plowshares / guns to roses

The price of peace paid by the Prince of Peace

Monday of the First Week of Advent

Dear Friends,

If you’re new to this Advent blog,  I recommend reading Welcome to Advent 2009 to get a sense of why we want to spend four weeks preparing for our Christmas celebration and how it can help you deepen your (our) spirituality whether you are a Catholic or even a Christian. (If you’re not tech savvy, click on the little arrow on the top left of your browser above the word “Back” and it’ll bring you right back to this page.)

Today’s reading from Isaiah is a famous one:

They shall beat their swords into plowshares

and their spears into pruning hooks.

Nation will not take up sword against nation,

nor will they train for war anymore. (Isaiah 2:4)

All of my adult life my writing and my prayer has been against war —

Viet Nam / the Balkans / the Gulf  War / Iraq / and now Afghanistan.

Pope Paul VI, speaking before the United Nations General Assembly made an impassioned plea:

“No more war! Never again war!

And Pope John Paul II said the Iraq war was “a defeat for humanity.”

And Dwight David Eisenhower, the great general of Word War II and President of the U.S. said: “When people speak to you about a preventive war, you tell them to go and fight it. After my experience, I have come to hate war. War settles nothing.”

Advent is a time to wish for peace / pray for peace / work for peace.

The Christmas story is about peace.  One of the titles of Jesus is “Prince of Peace.”

But we become cynical about peace.

Many of us have our private little wars that we engage in every day with a sibling or a friend or co-worker.

Let us “Practice peacefulness,” as a friend put it to me once.  Let’s stop the gossiping.  Give people a chance.  Be kind.

The legend of St. Christopher carrying a child across a stream on a stormy night invites us to greet every human person as if they were Christ himself.

Think thoughts of peace.  Be peace.  At least try it today, the second day of Advent.

The image below is a photo of the last page of the men’s magazine Details.   This image is actually a GAP commercial selling plaid shirts;  those are young women and men making up the peace sign.) Would that they (we) would put their (our)  bodies, minds and spirits to the task of creating peace in our world!



I will hear what the Lord God has to say,

a voice that speaks of peace,

peace for his people and his friends.

and those who turn to him in their hearts.

Mercy and faithfulness have met;

Justice and peace have embraced.

Faithfulness shall spring from the earth

and justice look down from heaven.

The Lord will make us prosper

and the earth shall yield its fruit.

Justice shall march before him

and peace shall follow his steps.

Psalm 85

Dear Friends,

I will be posting each day of Advent, (God willin’ n’ the creek don’t rise.)
You can subscribe to the blog and it will come directly to your inbox and look like the box above.
Just scroll down to the bottom of the page, enter your email address.  You can un-subcribe at anytime.

You can make yourself a five-minute-a-day mini-retreat and have the best and most meaningful Christmas ever!
It’ll relieve your stress.  Calm your nerves.  Put a bounce in your step and a smile on your face.  And it’s free!

And I always spend a lotta time selecting the right photo.  And I search the web for the perfect music video to accompany the theme.

So, what are you waiting for?  Come on board!  Put your email address in the hopper and you won’t have to think about it again.

Before you go here’s a real treat for you: Angelina singing St. Francis’ “Make Me a Channel of your Peace,”  filmed right in Assisi.  Click here, Be sure to turn up enter full  screen and turn up your speakers.

With love,

Bob Traupman

contemplative writer

Love is kind

143_143

Dear Friends and Lovers everywhere,

“Love is patient,

love is kind.”

We’re in a series of reflections based on St. Paul’s Ode to Love (I Cor. 13)

This is also about transforming America.

You’ve seen the bumper sticker that says, “Practice random acts of kindness and senseless acts of beauty.

We would transform America inside out if we just were a little more kind to the people we meet each day.

A smile to the store clerk instead of a scowl.

A wave to our neighbor across the street.

A quick phone call or email  to  simply say to a friend, “You’re thought of, loved and prayed for.”

A thumbs up sign to the homeless man on the street corner.

My mother was very harsh with me when I was a child.  There was a lot of yelling in my boyhood home.

So parents and brothers and sisters can think about the kindness issue as well.

And then there’s brash rudeness. I get quite upset when someone answers a phone call of mine with a curt email because they don’t want to talk to me.

And then there’s texting.  How much rudeness and downright hurtfulness is spread over the internet!

The more technology we have to communicate with, it seems the less we communicate.

And I have had my own inner work to  root out that kind of unkindness, even rudeness, from my own behavior.

There have been times that I was so angry with company greed that I had the store clerk in tears.  It helped me realize I had a lot of improvement to do in this area.

With God’s grace that’s happening.  I’ve made it a point to transform myself more and more to be kind to everyone even and especially those who are not kind to me. And I examine myself on this at day’s end.

That’s what Paul is getting at:

Let’s just be kind to one another.

It will transform America. Before you go, and especially if you haven’t quite woken up this mornin’ here’s a rousing gospel melody for ya: Put a little love in your heart! Turn up your speakers and be sure to enter full screen and have a great day, whether you like it or not!

With love,

Bob Traupman

contemplative writer